Anonymous asked: you seem like a person who would be able to help me with my problem. how the hell do i learn to love myself? my problem with being alone and uncomfortable with my own person has really fucked up all my relationships and leaves me miserable and depressed about 90% of the time

You’re wrong. I’m deeply insecure, and these insecurities have really forced me to look at myself and my relationships with people in recent months, even weeks. I think that self-love probably begins with giving up the unrealistic ideals one has drawn out for herself, but I know for sure that I’m not there yet. Like, I’m very much in-tune to my objective “positive” attributes and talents…but I don’t think I’ve reached total self love yet. I’m not sure I’m even close. I wish you luck.